Veterans possess a level of love and loyalty that stems from their service time, but the baggage from service can last forever. And when they reach an age where they may require daily assistance within the home, it can be challenging. There's a veteran's culture of sorts, which needs to be understood to gain the trust and respect of the veteran.
Lisa Grote, whose father is a Vietnam veteran, found joy in giving back what vets have given to the American people: service rooted in love for others.
“When taking care of a veteran, always be aware that there may be something deep down inside of them that makes them who they are as very proud, strong and self-reliant people,” says Lisa, a former caregiver. “Listening to their stories, admiring the way they live their lives, despite the nightmares inside them – that goes a long way.”
For a veteran needing assistance at home, it can be a hard time in their life to realize that they no longer possess the level of autonomy they’ve always had. They need help, and many proudly push back against that reality. Here are some tips for consideration when providing care for a veteran.
