Selective Search

Working with Nikki, has been a truly exceptional experience. Her approach feels both highly personalized and deeply intentional. Nikki takes the time to understand not just surface preferences, but true compatibility. It’s clear she brings a high level of care, discretion, and insight to her work. Although my introduction didn’t evolve into a long-term relationship, it was a genuinely meaningful connection. I felt very aligned with the person she selected, and we shared a lovely experience together. That level of thoughtfulness is rare and speaks to the caliber of her work. I’m incredibly grateful for the introduction and would highly recommend her to anyone seeking a more refined, discerning approach to dating.

First, I’m sorry to Jessica Mikols that I’m writing this so late. She and Selective Search are truly deserving of a 5 star review and complete changed my life for the better by introducing me to my now-husband. I participated as a candidate and was quickly matched with my husband, who was one of their clients. We both knew instantly that it was a match and were married within a year. Several years later, we are now proud parents and still just as happy. We have so much in common and align completely on values. They really are thoughtful in this. We would never have met but for Selective Search, for which I will be forever grateful.

I've had the pleasure of working with Nikki Wottrich @ Selective Search and could not be more pleased with her professionalism and eagerness to help me to find my match. When she brings a candidate, she brings a very accurate historic background, pictures and what my candidate looks forward to in the future so I am able to easily decide to meet with her. It is just such a better way to meet someone.

I’ve really enjoyed working with Selective Search so far. The first match they introduced me to was wonderful, and the entire process has been professional, thoughtful, and enjoyable. I’m looking forward to meeting more great matches and continuing the journey!

I truly loved the process of working with Selective Search, as it saved me a significant amount of time and made dating feel much more intentional. As a member, I found the communication to be excellent - Kara was very responsive and always easy to reach whenever I had questions or wanted to talk through anything related to a match. The quality of the matches and the thorough vetting process gave me a great deal of confidence, especially compared to dating apps, because I knew the introductions had real substance and the potential to be lasting. It was incredibly reassuring to not have to worry about honesty, intentions, or compatibility, and that peace of mind ultimately led me to finding someone truly meaningful.

Working with Selective Search has been a wonderful experience. Nikki’s professionalism, kindness, and communication made everything feel comfortable and easy from day one. I was genuinely impressed that the very first person they introduced me to turned out to be such an excellent match. It showed me how thoughtful and deliberate their process truly is. They really took the time to understand me and it showed in the result. I’m extremely pleased and would confidently recommend Selective Search. Mary P.

My experience with Selective Search has been excellent!! I worked with Alina and Nikki who are very professional, helpful, upbeat, engaging and I felt they were really working to find the right match for me. You can tell that their matchmakers truly enjoy their work and have a passion for it. The members are also really amazing If you are serious about finding love. The communication both before and after my match has been consistent and proactive. I have only good things to say about them and give them high marks across the board. I’m very happy to have found you and have suggested you to others.

I enjoyed very much working with Mackenzie Marconcini. She was a pleasure to work with. I was able to meet my fiancé through using Selective Search. I also enjoyed working with Elly Bethune as well. Thanks to all of the Selective Search team members for helping make this possible. It was a wonderful experience all the way around.

Nikki and her team have been a delight to work with: the consummate professionals! She has been responsive, thorough, thoughtful and open to my feedback. Communication has been quick and helpful! I’ve been extremely impressed with the caliber of matches I’ve been connected with. While I haven’t met my person yet, it’s clear Selective Search represents high-value men and women - educated, successful, attractive, quality. They are experts at what they do and clearly do their due diligence. I look forward to seeing what the New Year brings me via Nikki and her team! 🫶🏻

Working with Nikki Wottrich at Selective Service has been an exceptional experience. Nikki combines professionalism, genuine warmth, and thoughtful communication to create a seamless and enjoyable process. Her meticulous attention to detail, trustworthiness, and deep expertise instill complete confidence every step of the way. Nikki's dedication and personalized approach make her stand out — I always know I am in great hands! I highly recommend Nikki to anyone seeking a professional, tailored, and truly outstanding matchmaking experience.