When your teen gives up before they even start
In early April some teenagers begin to say things like “there’s no point” or “I’ll fail anyway” long before exams actually arrive. This hopelessness can hide underneath jokes, procrastination or constant distraction. In online sessions we treat these statements as important signals, not as drama. Together we explore past experiences of failure, humiliation or pressure that may now be shaping the teen’s expectations. We look for small, realistic goals that can be achieved within days, not months, to rebuild a sense of competence. We also talk about how to handle comments from adults and peers that deepen shame instead of offering support. Parents receive concrete suggestions on how to respond when their child says “I don’t care” even though it’s clear they are hurting. If you see your teenager giving up on themselves, an online consultation can be a place to start rebuilding hope in careful, practical steps.
