Our family’s experience with the Cremation Society of Pennsylvania has been extremely frustrating and disappointing during an already very difficult time.
It has now been 16 days since our grandmother passed, and we still do not have her ashes. Throughout this process, communication has been inconsistent and unclear. Each time we contact the organization, we are given different explanations for the delay, including state paperwork issues and staffing shortages, but no one has been able to provide a clear timeline or proactive updates.
In addition, our cousin specifically requested that our grandmother’s fingerprints be taken as a keepsake, and we later learned that this request was never completed. Discovering this after the fact was extremely upsetting for our family.
Today, our cousin was even told that she could not pick up our grandmother’s ashes because “another family was coming in.” Being turned away under those circumstances only added to our frustration and made us feel that our family’s needs were not being treated with the care and urgency they deserve.
We have repeatedly been told that our loved one is being handled with compassion and care, but unfortunately our family has experienced very little communication, accountability, or follow-through during this process.
Families place an enormous amount of trust in funeral and cremation services during one of the most vulnerable times in their lives. We hope the Cremation Society of Pennsylvania will address these issues and improve how they communicate with and support grieving families.
At this point, our family is simply asking for clear answers and the prompt return of our grandmother’s remains so we can finally lay her to rest.